Originally Posted by alibabe_muse
Tell them exactly that, exactly those words. You already answered your own questions of what to say. Either tell them when they are together or seperately.
Thanks for your help! While S keeps telling me I need to try harder to control my emotions, I think I got through to R a bit. I said exactly how I felt... I feel like a bad guy now and they weren't happy, but at least now it's out there.