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Old 10-07-2013, 08:37 PM
Nox Nox is offline
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Originally Posted by CattivaGattina View Post
Apparently he finally admitted that he doesn't know if we'll ever have the option to get back together. Now I'm waiting on him to give me the freedom to finally work on getting over him so if I do find someone else then I have that chance to move on when I feel like I can.
cindie is right.

From personal experience, the waiting around isn't healthy. I was doing too much of that and it caused stress in the relationship and to myself.

I do understand. It feels like waiting is what we should do. It doesn't feel like you're hurting yourself. However, there's a lot of missed opportunity when you're doing it, and that is definitely hurting yourself.
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Wife: Kay - mono female - married 18 years
LDR ex? girlfriend: Susan - serial monogamist female - 4 year relationship ended? 9/29
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