It is the fear of not knowing what she might do that is driving me to be on the fence. I am strongly leaning towards letting them stay with Nanny J for the duration of the reception. My best friend understands the situation, and she is fine with whatever our decision is. I would rather not take any chances. Emotions might still be running high. This will be the first time I have seen her since that lunch we had last month, and the first face-to-face contact since I informed her that a friendship would not be feasible. It will also be the first time she has seen my children in months. It has bad idea written all over it.
I would hope she would not do that because I would step in, and it would get really ugly. It would be nice to have a drama-free evening with her around.
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 12 years and father of our (3.5) children.