Me and my husband have agreed about telling each other before the first date. I have promised to my OSO (he is mono) to let him know if I get interested in another person - at the moment that is not very likely, have my hands full with these two loves.
My husband does not want to know each and every detail about my life. I am much more curious about what is happening to him and actually he enjoys telling me about who he has been chatting with, his friendships and potentials. So yes, I do know well beforehand if anything is to happen. And like it that way.
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CJ: legal husband and