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Old 10-06-2013, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by CattivaGattina View Post
Now I'm waiting on him to give me the freedom to finally work on getting over him . . .
Your freedom isn't his to give! You are free now.

It's up to you. You can either hang on and wait for whatever crumbs get thrown your way, or start detaching and building a stronger foundation of self-esteem and confidence to be able to have fulfilling, nurturing relationships on YOUR terms. Why the hell wait for anyone to grant you permission for that???

No matter how much you love someone or want to serve them, it's your life to take charge of - no reason to wait!!!!
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
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