... Well, keep on dipping, lurking, whatever you need to get comfortable and find your sea legs with us. I've never found a perfect forum, but this is one of the better ones. Tap into whatever boards, threads, and posts you find helpful. If you start a thread or anything, leave me a link to it here on this thread and I'll follow along.
Yeah, I guess sometimes it's better to have a clean break, even if it hurts a little more. Hang tough; I believe you'll be okay with time and opportunity.