You are not an outside partner. You already IN the polyship dynamic. To tend to the other polypartner and neglect you? That's not cool. You are here
When I give that suggestion to take a dating break? I mean stop dating and looking for brand NEW people. People not
already part of the existing polyship and it's polymath.
If one cannot care for the poly partners they already
have? Why be looking for MORE and spread self even thinner? That is poor time management and poor relationship tending to me.