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Old 10-04-2013, 07:15 PM
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I think a person can do both. My boyfriend and I have both done "work" on our marriages while still being together. Maybe here or there we would forgo a night together to focus on a spouse, but I dont think either of us would neglect our own relationship enitrely. If i were to totally remove myself from Nudge to focus on J, id be pretty upset and of not much use to J. Where as Im happy with nudge, and in a better place to work on this with J. If J were to say "could you consider not doing overnights for a while " or some other request that only modified things for a time, I could respect that. But I agree with you to not break a healthy relationship to work on another
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