Originally Posted by Lemondrop
Way back when we first started seeing Asha, she handed us a book called (I think) Screw the Roses, Give Me the Thorns.
Screw the roses is a good staple for anyone getting into the lifestyle. It covers sadomasochism, domination, bondage, with a good balance between "how to" and "what's going on in our heads when we do this?"
As a testament to its ubiquitousness, when my husband and I moved in together, we were unsurprised to find we now have two copies :P