You're friends with all these poly people and feel like you're the only one with only one partner? Did you have another partner or partners til recently? Have you been dating, getting out there? If all the people in your local poly group are "taken" and/or not attracted to you, or you're not attracted to them, you could try OKCupid. It worked for me!
You may not find Mr or Ms Right right away, but you could have some fun dates, maybe some good sex, until true love hits you in the eye like a big pizza pie!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37