I am enjoying your blog. Your life is not boring. I rarely comment on blogs, but I am following it.
I do not blame you for not being into what Butch likes. I cannot see myself doing that. I would look at my husband like GTFOH, dude. It would make me feel uncomfortable. He needs to respect how you feel and find an outlet.
Murf sounds like a keeper, and I hope your relationship with him continues to flourish and grow.