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Old 10-01-2013, 04:40 AM
london london is offline
Join Date: May 2013
Location: UK - land of the free
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You don't want your partner to be polyamorous, you wish he wasn't, and therefore you will oppose any signs that he is. Even if some of the things are unreasonable, the fact that you are not okay with polyamory means that you will constantly find new things that are issues in an attempt to further and further restrict his relationships because like anyone else, you crave a relationship that will make you happy. Unfortunately, you are not willing to admit that you are incompatible with this person and you want to stay in a relationship that cannot make you both happy at the same time, so there is nothing anyone can say really. I mean, you might be able to suppress that major part of you that needs monogamy to feel valued but I never think that is a good thing.
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