Welcome to our forum.
Sometimes it seems like it's easier to find a roll-in-the-hay than it is a multi-dimensional poly relationship. It may take awhile to find the right couple or woman for you, but hang in there patiently as the time will someday be right.
On Polyamory.com, we have a Dating & Friendships subforum
that might help you out. Give it a visit.
Make yourself at home in general and check out our different boards and threads. Much accumulated wisdom here, from many perspectives: good stuff to tap into. Give us a post anytime with thoughts, questions, and/or concerns; post an update if you get lost in the shuffle; take advantage of our search and tag search features too.
Glad you could join us and hope we can help.