Sex has always been an intensely emotional experience for me, so I definitely get where you're coming from and understand the need for a relationship that is "more than just sex."
Couple of on-site links you might find helpful:
Dating & Friendships subforum
Golden Nuggets board
I definitely think you'll meet like-minded folks and new friends here; just have a look around and see what calls to you. I hope you find that special person who is just right for you (and who you're just right for too!). It takes awhile, finding the right match, so continue your search with hope and patience and I'm sure you'll get there in due time. In the meantime, do tap into Polyamory.com and learn all you can!
Glad you could join us; don't hesitate to post your thoughts, questions, and/or concerns as they arise.