Very much agree with you there!
Some people are just "too poly" I think!
Some people just want lots of casual sex, maybe are NRE junkies... My bf has neither characteristic, but it seems he just loves the ladies. However, there is such a thing as spreading yourself too thin. He may think he's handling all his relationships well, keeping things balanced, giving us all enough time and attention. However, his thoughts on this may not, do not reflect my experience on this end of his juggling act. And I've told him so, and recently it seems it's affected his behavior in positive ways!
It's always good to speak up, even when things get uncomfortable for a while.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M
Old Friend, gender fluid
Nick, 35, M (occasional lover)
Hippie, 25 (?)
Dark Wing, 45 (?)