My words were meant kindly, not harshly.
I am glad you were already wondering/thinking on those lines yourself though. To be looking out for your own health IS self respecting behavior.
The polyshipping might be new to you, but you know what? Whether a monoship or a polyship or some other model?
There's just some people who are UNHEALTHY dating partners and it is best to steer clear of them in ANY shape relationship!
I hope things become healthier for you.