Thread: Letting go
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Old 03-04-2010, 04:48 AM
saudade saudade is offline
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I've found that I only have a problem 'letting go' when I don't actually have a grip in the first place: when I have a deep emotional bond with someone and we're not in a place to recognize it, and that person is with someone else. (I had a best friend once upon a time, and a mono boyfriend, and... yeah.)

The closest I get to difficulty letting go these days is noticing the moment pass by in which I'm societally expected to have difficulty, wondering for a moment if I'm actually feeling any, not finding any problems, and carrying on with my day. Then again, I'm just as hard-wired to be poly as Mono is to be mono, so it's not "in my genes" to worry about this sort of thing.

How about everyone else?
"I was thorough when I looked for you, and I feel justified lying in your arms." - Chasing Amy
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