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Old 09-28-2013, 01:49 PM
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Magdlyn Magdlyn is offline
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LOL Meera.

So I get this message from a guy with no photo:

I find you intriguing, I keep coming back to your site! You seem really cool. I like a lot of the same music. Anyway, just thought I'd let you know. -[his name]
I am kind of taking a break from dating now, unless someone really irresistable comes along. So, I look at his profile, it's just OK, only 73% match, I don't respond. Next day he writes again.

The weekend is almost here! Starts at 3 for me. A few rum and cokes while listening to some live Dead sounds pretty damn good about now....
So, I felt like being polite and responded a while later:
Nice way to relax indeed.
Soon after, he says:

Alright, you can talk! Maybe in a couple months we could go for coffee! LOL.
Then a half hr later:

Or maybe sooner? [his phone number] and I'll send a picture. I don't kiss on first dates though, just warnin ya.
What the fuck??? That must be the oddest "warning" about boundaries I've ever gotten from a guy I barely responded to.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62)
Pixi (poly, F, 40) my partner since January 2009
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's Dom/bf since April 2013
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