Dagferi, could you please let me know where to find the post you referred to “At a Cross Roads”?
I found an older blog post but with a different title.
Sorry to hear that you weren’t feeling well after your shift, and especially that your trust in Butch had been long broken and that this continues to so affect you both. Hoping things improve for each of you soon.
Also hoping to learn what pitfalls to avoid before anything develops with my wife. Thankfully she’s taking things slowly, which suits me fine.