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Old 03-03-2010, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Vexed View Post
Thank you for your perspective. You are right, I owe it to my marriage to tell her what I feel, even if I feel she will never accept it, and give her the opportunity to respond and work together. I guess part of me is concerned that, if it doesn't work out, no matter how I explain my perspective, it will just get way oversimplified and repeated by her to others as "he left me so he could f*** a bunch of other people".
That is definitely a possibility, and I'm sorry for it. I don't think you have any control over what she says, anyway--she could be, right now, telling people that you have trouble in your marriage because you look at porn. I hope that she is or will be mature enough to realize that nothing is ever that simple, at least in the long run. I hope that everything works out well for you.
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