Currently, I would say we are a closed couple. Hubby has no interest in anything else at the moment. I think he was hurt too badly by our experience with K (our failed triad) and needs to heal. He has said if I still want a girlfriend I could have one, but my plate is rather full as it is, just with our own lives, and there is no one I am interested in at this time. If someone wanders our way that should catch either of our attention, we'd probably be open though.
Women and cats will do what they want, men and dogs will have to get used to it. ~~ Heinlein