Originally Posted by disarmedheart
Maybe I'm just reading into it, but your post seemed a little snarky.
Did I do something to offend you?
I put "dilemma" in quotes because it is part of the title of this thread and it was the word you chose. I changed "wife" to "partner" because it seemed like you were not pleased that I referred to her as "wife". (it's hard to remember which people are married and which ones are not once threads get going for a while. There are other people on here with similar situations to yours who are married. This distinction is a big deal to some folks and I was trying to be respectful when you pointed out that you are not married.)
You definitely WERE reading snarkiness into my post. I'm sorry it came across that way to you.