As long as we are digressing: Two anecdotes:
1. My rideshare partner recently became single and I suggested that he do meet up groups rather than online dating. And boom! He was shocked but he has had a number of great interactions and a date for this Wednesday after maybe 3 weeks of meet ups. Pretty good! He is 57, single, monogamous, in great shape and vanilla. There is definitely a bigger dating pool for him but still.
2. My SO, C, is tall and heavy but I love the distribution, very Rubenesque. I am HWP, a few extra pounds, ok for my age. But recently my dates have been tiny hardbodies which has caused her some distress but she's dealt with it. My current girlfriend, M is training for a marathon. I love the contrast.
Me, Dino: 58 single straight male
Dion: 51, single, straight, sub
Celia: 52, single straight female