Good to read all this. My bf lives in another country so when i go see him it will be for more than one night. My husband told me he doesn't like the idea of me waking up with him. No option to start with one single night.
So i read this to know what it is i can do to make him feel comfortable. To make it a little bit easy. For example: would it have been easier if you had a text message for example or not? Is it better to get information afterwards or not? ...