It is sad that anyone has to defend themselves or even feel the need to. Your personal feelings and beliefs are yours.
Being pretty new to this I am expressing my personal observations. Quite obviously I am wrong when it comes to some things, but I'm learning.
Youarehere, I am sorry, let me clarify what I meant.
Yes it is possible to love just one, or many. What I meant by the social norms is realizing that it is okay to love more then one and accepting that other do as well. We are taught from a young age that mono is the normal and anything else is wrong. Conditioned so to speak to conform to what is socially acceptable. Being socially conditioned is entirely different then being personally wired. Better?
Once again, my apologies.