A) I am not married.
B) She knows everything contained in this thread via our talks on same subject prior to the authoring on this thread.
C) I am not looking for a 'magic bullet,' I'm really just presenting my story to others so that they can do exactly what they've done, provide some sort of perceived support so that I don't feel so damned alone on the issue. There is no right answer to my problem and I know this.
Thanks for your thoughts, though.