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Old 03-02-2010, 07:02 PM
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When you get the urge to start in with the questioning, take a deep breath and ask yourself, is this something I really need to know, or can I trust him to come with me with problems? Maybe you're worried that he won't speak up if he has an issue..some people don't. If he's the kind of guy who will speak up, give yourself a short pep talk and let it go. If your insecurity is because he's the kind of guy who stuffs his feelings, then maybe you should talk to him about that, and make some kind of agreement where he will come to you if he needs to.
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