That we did agree to always live together no matter what till Wolf becomes an adult (or as long as she lives at home).
Have you considered that having two, or even one, unhappy parent in the home may not be best for your child?
I also think that it probably isn't in the best interests of your child to move her away from her father. Her needs should come before yours or his. I think you are looking for ways to make him choose. I'm actually going to stop reading this thread altogether because I just find it seriously upsetting when adults behave in this way. Like I literally have a lump in my throat.