Hang on. Prof's wife S wants to have a weekend long date with one of her "FBs?" But he can't have one with you?
I know you like the sex, but I'd step away til he and his wife get their shit straightened out. Being relegated to a pseudo-fuck buddy with DADT rules, when, face it, you're really lovers, would drive me up a wall.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37