Hi Emma, welcome.
I am also a cisgendered female, but ID as genderqueer. My gf of 4+ years is a transwoman and pansexual. My bf of 21 months is a cisgendered, pansexual genderqueer IDed person as well.
Heh, that's a lot of labels.
Polyamory is a lot of work. It's extremely important to know yourself well, be relatively free of issues (therapy helps), before attempting to maintain relationships with 2 or more people. It can get overwhelming for even the strongest most mature of us!
It's real fun when it's all working though.
Good luck on your journey.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 58, living with:
miss pixi, 37, who is dating (NRE):