Originally Posted by AnnabelMore
it's one thing to ask your partner to tie you with straps because you're afraid of restraints, with the expectation that your partner will stop when you start to show more than a little discomfort. It's another to have a dynamic with your partner where it's expected that they'll reduce you to a weeping, incoherent mess as part of an average session, which was the case with my metamour and her sadist. .
Agreed, I was in no way advocating that kind of behavior, apologies if I gave that impression.