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Old 09-20-2013, 03:24 PM
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Time for an update. I posted specifically about the herpes issue in a separate thread.

http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=55975

Ginger has not dated C since their first little meet and greet. He says he's been too busy and plus, his allergies to ragweed have been hitting him big-time.

So, one less thing for me to worry about. I'm taking a big break from trying to date anyone new. Too much going on, and I am out of time and emotional resources to care to take on anyone new, with all their fucking problems! At this point I just feel like I don't ever want another bf or gf. Ugh! Having a potential try to kill himself has really done a number on me.

miss p is still IMing with SB, and now this new guy, who is something of a Dom, is trying to get with her. She likes him but is putting him off because of us being so busy. No plans to meet with SB again anytime soon either, afaik.

Ginger had his 2nd date, first sleepover, with Mischa a couple days ago, and as I said in the linked thread, there was not much in the way of sexy time. Talking about her herpes, holding her as she cried about her infections and her loss of 3 relationships over the summer, sounds like most of their date.

Even though he's super sexual with me, Ginger is fine with having less sexual relationships with others. He's maintained long term relationships where there was little to no sex. So, he'd be OK with carrying on asexually with Mischa, doing snuggling only. But he told me she may not be fine with that, herself. She works one day a week 1/2 hr away from him, so *could* come spend the night once a week, if she didnt have any other commitments that evening. But they didn't plan a subsequent date the other day. She's kind of in rebound mode from her recent breakups with the other 3 guys. Plus trying to figure out this damn herpes thing.

Please can I have just one week with no one having major crises to deal with here?

My dear sister is flying up from Fla to spend a few days with us, see the new house and town. She gets here Monday. And in other non poly news, I got a lead on a new childcare job and will be working for them next Thursday, hours after my sister leaves. Ah, normal life, non poly, just living. Enough with all these "lovers" and their suicides and herpes! Sheesh!
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