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Old 09-20-2013, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted by qwair View Post
'This guy thinks this is about the sex?!'
Not to ruin the moment, but I actually wasn't making any kind of assumption about your sex life. I was merely stating that this sort of arrangement doesn't sound like any kind of healthy relationship I'd want to be a part of. The only exception would possibly be if it were a very casual hook up (booty call).

Either way, I'm glad you got something out of our miscommunication.

Originally Posted by qwair View Post
we've reached a possible solution that I'm much happier with: She gets to be monogamous with N, and we get to stay friends.
Good for you. I'm glad you've come to a decision and that you feel clean about it. "Break ups" suck, but changing a relationship so that everyone is happier and healthier can be a wonderful thing.
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