Originally Posted by Duckshoes
My attitude towards this situation has taken a dramtic turn since I first posted and that is because of the articles and things that people have presented to me. I didn't see things from her side and I didn't react in the right way. I still maintain that she could have helped the situation by approaching it differently, I don't know if we created an atmosphere where she didn't feel comfortable....I certainly hope not, that was never our intent.
I must say, I'm impressed that you have taken so much criticism and new information in stride. It can be a tough thing to do, learn that your view of a situation might have been skewed and that you still have a lot to learn. I am not always so graceful when I discover I've dropped the ball.
I still see a bit of disconnect with some of the messages being expressed to you, but for the most part you at least appear to be open to the idea of growing.