I understand. I do not use many definitions to define myself other than "Human" due to stigmas, stereotypes, and putting myself in a box so to speak.
I view the universe/deity/the cosmos in a pantheistic sense. If you apply it to a relationship you can truly connect with the partner on a deeper level I believe. When you understand that you and her/him came from the same stars, are both just as much divinity as anything else, you feel like your actions and emotions are always connected for the better.