Originally Posted by Dagferi
My life is poly..
But I do not advertise my personal life. My relationships arw run like completely separate entities . Rarely do they overlap. When they do for example at kid events the guys are introduced by their names. If people ask directly I answer honestly .
Doesn't make me less poly.
Of course you are poly, I never claimed otherwise. If, however, you had a DADT arrangement with one of the guys, that would make it not poly in my opinion, because you aren't honest with at least one of them, albeit consensually. But that's just my personal definition and it could be that people in this forum define poly differently than I do. That's fine and I don't want to step on any toes, or force my view on anybody else.
I'm not in any position to tell people what poly is. I can only tell them what poly is for me