My life is poly..
But I do not advertise my personal life. My relationships arw run like completely separate entities . Rarely do they overlap. When they do for example at kid events the guys are introduced by their names. If people ask directly I answer honestly .
Doesn't make me less poly.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.