Op this is going to sound harsh.
Your wife is a grown up.. You need to let HER deal with this and you MYOB. She needs to not bring you into things.
You have no right to dictate how his relationship with your wife goes. That is between them. If she allows him to treat her poorly then SHE needs to deal with it.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.
Last edited by Dagferi; 09-18-2013 at 03:06 PM.