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Old 03-01-2010, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit View Post

Be patient. Relax. Time changes everything.

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OR.. it doesn't. She may have actually changed her mindset on a permanent basis.. if that's so, then the honesty and communication are going to be your greatest allies.

Definitely give her time to evaluate and decide.. but keep the dialogue open, as well. Make sure you're not individually working on the situation to different ends... know where your head is, and where hers is. There's certainly precedent for this situation that has ended in a positive relationship wherein one partner is mono and one is not. I have to double agree with "be patient".. that's the best advice, along with "Talk!"

Fingers crossed for you!
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