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Old 09-17-2013, 01:46 PM
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Don't you feel like it's too little, too late? Seven is so wishy-washy. When is he going to stand up for himself and not let Lamian decide his life for him? I wouldn't hold my breath, if were you, waiting to see if he ever gets his balls back from her! It may have been a nice moment to reconnect with him, but then what have you got? Just a nice moment and some hope. You can't count on that - actions speak louder! I say, keep going on with getting strong inside yourself and developing your sense of self-worth so that the shifting tides of the ones you love don't constantly throw you as they have done before. Be your own woman, your own primary. Invest in you!
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