I would say that the priority for you and P right now is to deal with your living situation and the landlord wanting to kick you out. The fact that P chose to take a pleasure trip now while this is going on says volumes about where his head is at right now.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
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