I don't think that means separateness GS, just realizing differences and what our limits are. We can all hang out and appreciate one another without being long lost friends. Just on the grounds that we are able to encompass more than one lover in our lives and partners also. It's kind of a weird thing to meet about really.
I love that when I get together with my community there is tons of differences and stories of poly for them. Stories in every way really. I have never known such a diverse group
When we had our last poly meeting I sat and looked at them all and marveled at the fact we can all get together on this one thing and then go off and have our lives in between meetings.
Quite remarkable and I feel very fortunate.