one issue I see is this;
There is a HUGE pressure inside of a BDSM community to instill upon everyone the NECESSITY of consent.
The idea that there isn't consent-negates it being BDSM altogether. Without consent, it's not BDSM, it's something altogether different.
i'm ok if there is consent but otherwise I have an issue with it....
is like saying I'm ok with BDSM but I'm not ok with abuses that happen in the world that look similar to BDSM but in fact are not.
Which-is confusing in a thread devoted only to BDSM-and absolutely NOT supporting or approving of abuse in any form...
"Love As Thou Wilt"