I must say that I understand your husband in this sense. My draw to D/s is similar. I like to dominate, but have been known to be dominated in private
This is an avenue that I find myself going down more of late. Interesting times.... I hope others write about their casual sex experiences... I think I have exhausted the topic at this point. For me, all of the casual sex I had was while drunk. Another thing to add to the whole thing. I wonder what would of happened if there was no mind altering involved. Is it valid to say that one would feel the same, or even do the same things?