Originally Posted by assets
He has consistently refused to speak to me about our situation (before yesterday morning) and i am done trying. Last night he was talking to me and telling me about his day as if nothing happened at all. I really don't think that he gets it. Or maybe it's me that doesn't...
Such frustration is understandable. We never want it to get to this point, and that is regrettable, all you can do about that part is apologize for your part and move on, but your frustration is understandable. I really strongly suspect... he gets it. Who wouldn't, you know? If nothing else, you flat out told him. I think you're done here and, pretty soon, your only regret will be that you didn't leave sooner. Sorry. But things will be better as soon as this is over. Poly or not this is not a healthy relationship for you. PM if you want.