As for the OP, It's really good to hear from you.
And I found my reaction a little odd... When I was first reading it, my thought was "it would be good if they could get their marriage on track before she looks outside it" but then when I learned who "she" was and who "you" were, and therefore what I've read about the husband, my attitude completely changed. Not that going outside the marriage will help the marriage, actually could strain it more, but I really think she needs someone sane and honest and supportive in her life, and it really sounds like that's what you are.
Nice to "meet" you, welcome to the forum, hope you both stick around and let us know how it keeps going!
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."
Last edited by NeonKaos; 02-26-2010 at 12:51 PM.
Reason: sentence breaks in OP were fixed