Originally Posted by LethalTender
Its, easy to try and place blame on oneself for the pain in the lives of our loved ones, however this is a matter that is more specific to the relationship that he and his wife share. Should the worst occur and she leave the most you should dare accept blame for is loving him, and being wanting and willing to work the matter out with her. Some could very well argue that it IS your fault for stealing his affections.
I am not fearful that she will choose to leave because of ME per se... she knew of his polyamorous nature before I was in the picture. But because I am the first tangible evidence she can "see" that makes it REAL, I worry that she won't give me a fair shot, even if she agrees to meet me. Does that make any sense?
Sex between a man and a woman can be absolutely wonderful - provided you get between the right man and the right woman. ~Woody Allen
Last edited by foxflame88; 06-29-2009 at 08:08 PM.