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Old 09-13-2013, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted by gorgeouskitten View Post
I was encouraging him to get his needs met, but was also just curious he he would feel in the situation, whether right or wrong.
I understand being bummed that I'm not getting what I want. When I go without sex or affection (or whatever it is that I want) from my partner for longer than I'd like, I certainly have the right to think "well this sucks". I also need to be more proactive in getting whatever it is I want from my partner, or find some other outlet which is more apt to give it to me.

Either way, it's my business and if I want to feel satisfied I need to figure out how to make that happen without prompting anyone to behave toward me in a way that isn't genuine.

Originally Posted by gorgeouskitten View Post
i know a lot of men get touchy about sex
Generally speaking, men certainly like to have sex, if that's what you mean - but so do women.
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