I'm new to the site but not new to Poly. I don't have years of hands on experience but I have many years of pontificating and reading and debating about it
Currently I am "Poly Single". Meaning, while I am not dating anyone at the moment, I still identify as Polyamorous. I was in a mono-turned-poly relationship for 9 years but due to reasons unrelated to poly it didn't work out.
I live by the saying "you get what you think about", spending time re-working thoughts that feel bad into ones that feel better so what I "get" feels better instead of worse. Most of my posts will reflect this theme
I'm looking forward to chatting with like-minded people, and sharing my adventures as I connect up with the local poly community and begin the process of dating again, but this time from the poly end of the pool, not the mono end.