Originally Posted by Marcus
Psh, I do what I want with my sex drive. Someone being 'upset' because they aren't getting their fair share needs to realize that life isn't fair... and that I am not a commodity they have stock in.
I understand you only have one lover?
I now live with my gf, and whenever my bf comes over and we have loud sexy times, after he and I are done, he's asleep or gone home or whatever, I make sure to suss out the gf's mood and see if she's also feeling wanty for sex.
This has been my habit ever since I met her. Even before we were living together fulltime, she's always been cool with me having another lover over when she and I were spending time at her or my apartment. The least I felt I could do for her being so supportive of me was to take care of any desires she had, especially if my loud enthusiastic sex inspired her desire.
It's not a burden on me at all! The more sex I have, the more I want. I love to double dip. And she has verbally told she appreciates me taking care of her in this way.